I seem to know a few people who have broken up recently and I really feel for them right now.

I remember my worst break up was when I just got to London (first time out of NZ) so I was a pretty naive 22 year old and out of the blue I was dumped.

Now don't feel too bad for me because quite frankly it was (after a few months of wailing haha) the best thing that could of happened to me.  You never think that at the time though do you.

What stands out for me now though is just how wonderful pretty much strangers were to me at the time.  I remember a house mate who I barely knew and funnily enough who I see at the footie every now and again leaving hot dinners at my bedroom door for me to eat. Nikki you are and still are a real little angel.  

I remember the Irish brothers at our local pub making sure I was ok every time I went in there.  

I remember running into an old boss from NZ who offered me a job and then fed me take away curries and Marks & Spencer's fettuccine for weeks. God that was good.  I remember staying at her flat in Finsbury Park, North London and her bubble bath was amazeballs.  

What gets you through these shit break ups and other tough times are good people, yummy food, some TLC and before you know it you're ripping around the place living life to the full again! 

I've picked out a few bits that might help your someone going through a break up or equally as shit time to help you cheer them up again.  Peace up brothers and sisters xx

The first step to healing is facing this shit head on.  These cool socks give you the perfect opportunity to break apart so you get back together again.  Go you!

It's hard being a dude sometimes but let it all out my brother.  Have a good old weep and chuck on these bad boys because Thou Hath Balls!

This tea towel has to be one of my all time favourites because you deserve to talk shit about it and then go Next Please!

Last but not least, remind your buddy they're special just like a Unicorn and they'll love you for it forever.